That was unpleasant
I've been putting off taking Targ's crate down. I was trying to convince myself that the girls were using it... and they used to lay in it all the time when Targ was alive. But a month later, I have to admit that neither one of them has shown any interest in laying in it. Turns out I was keeping it up for me. I guess I could almost believe he was still in it.. hiding in the back. I just took his crate down and was overwhelmed with how much I miss him... I'm storing it in the attic. Right now I have a hard time believing that I'll ever use it for anyone else, but I know that in time that will change... But for right now.. it's like he just left us yesterday.

8 thoughts on “That was unpleasant

  1. I am SOOO sorry for your loss. I know Targ’s crate was a good reminder, but with or without it, I know he is there… hiding… in a corner of your heart.
    Sending hugs your way…
    Cher aka GeekGoddess26 (twitter)

  2. I’m so sorry for your loss. I just lost my dear cat about two weeks ago and have yet to admit she’s really gone. I haven’t touched any of her things either… convinced that my other cats will use them.
    Hang in there and know that you’re in our thoughts.

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  3. The day Phantom left me to cross rainbow bridge, my Husband ran out of the car and into the house when we arrived home. I didn’t understand why till I got inside. He had picked up the dog beds from every room and put them in the garage so I didn’t have to look at them. It’s a good thing too, I never would have been able to get rid of them. I still have the little rugby jersey he would wear in the winter sitting in my room and his collar in my nightstand.

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